Intro

Wedding planning can be a nightmare and most Brides will be so caught up in where to start planing what, that they forget to just be happy and let it all sink in. I got engaged last week (19 May 2013) and to be completely honest, I was completely overwhelmed by what was happening! That next day, something inside me was slowly but surely starting to crawl... Where do i start??? 
The first thing i wanted to do is send out Bridesmaid requests to all my favourite girls. What colour will they be...? What theme...? What style...? 
I started freaking out! If i do decide to send out the bridesmaids requests in a certain style and colour will I later change my mind on the theme...?
Panic started to fill me entire body! The reality of being engaged finally started sinking in. I am starting the rest of my life, everything HAS to be perfect!!! Soon i realised that i was so busy thinking about these finicky wedding things, that i forgot to just be happy about this huge step i was taking with the man i love. Coming home to him everyday after work, Calling him my fiancé every chance i got, these are the things i should be concerned about now. The wedding planning will happen as it comes.

Thus i started this blog. This is me: Jolene Degenaar, newly engaged to Andre Bester and taking it easy whilst opening a new world of questions and answers, advise and comments, and general things any wedding beginner should know, and think about before she starts the rest of her life. **